Thursday 11 December 2014

To that someone in you!

Hey people,
 Well, before you bump on into the car of curiosities, let me tell you that the someone within you, each of you, is you. Okay I am not planning on a session on tongue twisters :). What I want to convey through this tale is a simple concept, the concept of pleasing yourself,loving yourself, patting yourself and most importantly taking care of the 'you' in yourself.


                                      All of us have a heart, which from a philosopher's and a biologist's point of view is a fist's size. But it has the power of withstanding all that you dump in it, where the capacity may exceed even the amount of air in 100 balloons. In fact the you, who the world sees, is the personification of your heart. So the real you  lies in your heart. Well if it is important to take care of yourself externally, isn't it important to take care of the inner you? In fact the inner you is the most stupid of all. It gives room for all the worries, fears , anxieties and above all only remainder of its space to the most essential ones being hope, love ,care, faith and trust. But heart doesn't know to prioritize things because being your heart, it thinks that all you put in it is important. In this way , the more you keep sending your stressful things, the more the inner you turns fragile and weak. And finally, you being the personification of it , are affected. This turns you into a gloomy, dull and fearful person, making you lose the best moments of your life. So spending quality time in taking care of the inner you becomes the call of the moment.

                                     The healing for this lies just in your hands and more specifically in your mindset. It is known that fear, worries and pains form an integral part of life and they are indispensable. But if we try to solve our day to day issues, and dealing even the biggest problems smoothly, they tend to gradually lessen and hence the amount of dumping into the inner you decreases. Now if you start filling the emptied space with more positive attitudes, love, happiness and cheerfulness,I am sure that your heart can hold even more than the amount with which it survived earlier because it's the lightest of lightest feelings that you are filling.Try to calm yourself  by giving hopes to your heart at painful moments, by consoling your heart at bad times, by thanking your heart at happy times, and by patting the inner you at proud moments. Remember, the inner you is more fragile than a new-born. So giving it proper care is very essential . So, when the inner you is taken care of, isn't it enough for you to stay happy and young ever?.