Tuesday 16 September 2014

Do small dozes of happiness exist?

Well to those people out there, who grumble due to dissatisfaction and and are not sated with their day's activities and life largely, here, this article is a must read for you. (At times, I am included in this category though. And I solely take the contents of this article ,if in case my memory becomes short term, forgetting these pieces of advises..).
                                       Its human tendency to expect. Expectation forms the greatest idiosyncrasy ( each of us think that way though) of each individual. That too in terms of happiness, all of us want it so desperately that if we don't achieve it, it becomes the biggest desiderium. It's not wrong to long for happiness as it makes us more pleased and satisfied.However the wrong part is to feel depressed and bad when we don't achieve it. What is the solution to this problem?.
                                       From an engineer's point of view ( Yes..I am one), it is always expected to know the cause of the problem before jumping into the stage of finding the solution. This problem of dissatisfaction occurs because we always look out for happiness in a large scale. We always estimate that happiness is something that should please us in a more larger way and have its impact wide spread. That is the reason for us to get disappointed at the end of the day ,when according to us ,all the activities of the day turned out badly. Now coming into the solution part, my opinion is that this problem can be solved if we come to understand the point that happiness comes in smaller dozes. The cliched saying goes " Great things come in small packages". Consider happiness to be a great thing that can experienced in a small scale but yeah leaving a much more cloyed feeling .
                                   Putting it in simple words, develop the mentality to smile and feel happy for little things, say , for the little cup of coffee that you share with your buddy, for the free time (say even few minutes )that you spend in the college / at work sharing your gossips and funny thoughts with your friends, for walking or strolling in the garden with the nature at its best, for the small tests that you perform well, for the hobbies that you carry out , for the time that you spend with your pet , for the time you listen to your favorite music etc. These things could be small, sometimes could even be funny to hear.But the impact of such small things is surely higher. Another saying goes
" Small drops make a big ocean". In the same way these small instances of happiness, make the moments cherishable and splendid. So even when you think that you are displeased at the end of the day, being vexed and unhappy, just close your eyes for a moment and recollect all the happy moments that you experienced that day( could be the ones that are mentioned above or any other experiences). These moments together gives a huge feeling of happiness and though if you think it can never equate for the bad experiences of the day, I am sure that it can at least lessen the burden of your day making you build up  good hopes . 
                                                  
                                     So always don't consider happiness to come to you like a 1000 waala, used in Diwali, giving you one shot bliss. But give rooms for small packages or dozes of happiness , like a small flower pot, which when kindled, gives a colourful wide spread light thereby delighting us . So do you still have doubts that small dozes of happiness exist??Well then, try out the above and find the difference i.e the solution for yourself.

Thursday 11 September 2014

Funny Outcomes of Technological Outbursts :D


                                                                                                


              

Hey all, Well I am back with yet another simple tale :)...This time lets take it more deep into the changing world. Living in a life filled with activities, we see that we cannot carry out these activities without the help of the modern advancements. Technological outbursts surely signify the upliftment of the society, and we still are awaiting the advent of even more outbursts.Well, taking current technological advancements into consideration, I solely take my work ,as to show to some funny outcomes of such technological outbursts .(I am very sure that all of us know atleast few of them.)This is not to put down the advancements,but it shows how the latest trend in the technology is spread rapidly among the folks. 
(The first image is before and the next is after the advancements)

** Okay, I am sure that all of us would have made a visit to our neighbour's or relative's house where the cute little kids play around . If you call one of kiddos and ask them 
( Considering that they are all around 4-5 years) " Dear,  What did they teach you in school". I am sure that every kid will start off with "A for Apple..B for Ball..etc.".The apple there means the fruit.Well now the kids have a different meaning of apple to tell us.So were we taught wrongly??Too late to repent.
                                 
** It is normal for us to see beggars who roam on the roads to earn their living. They thrive on the money offered by the people. Well gone are the times where the beggars are considered poor.So, you don't believe me??? Huh,take a look then
                                                                                
   **Okay going on to the next. We have reminiscences of attending  family engagements. Something or someone missing in an engagement can be common, be it any relative or any auspicious article. Can the bride and groom be missing??? Well our "new termed matchmaker" Skype has brought them together while their family is engrossed in performing the rituals of an engagement.New ?

                                                                           Something Very New....Betrothal viewed by the boy and girl in Skype...

**Now not to leave this one, its common for the tinytots to make a miss on eating the greens and other vegetables and fruits. On such incidents,the mothers usually face a tough time to make them eat atleast a bit. Lets take an example of a fruit like banana which most of the children hate.Well mothers I think you need to get to know the knack of making the child eat.And yeah children respond to the earphones better ;so mothers do you hear???
         

** Okay its a known fact that the mobile phones were invented for communication purposes.So what is this communication??People in far and different places talk and make contact with other people using these instruments.Later came an instant messaging service , an application in these phones.Taking a place like an office as instance,it is okay for a person in one block or floor to text to the other person.But is it so for the people sharing the same cabin or same place, very close to each other?? That's the scenario now.Well they could just do it by conversing.Come on the phones are for information transfer and not for muting your conversation.
          
The above instances are just few funny outcomes of technological advancements.Its not wrong in its way as the world adapts to the changing inventions. So at this pace, if we have few such funny outcomes, lets hope some more for the near and far future